The Situation
It faded gradually enough that there's no single moment to point to. The hand-holding stopped first, then the kiss goodbye got shorter, then it was just... gone. Nothing was said. When it's brought up, the answer is some version of "I don't know, I guess I've just been busy" — which doesn't really explain a change this specific.
Affection is often the first thing to go when someone is carrying stress, resentment, or low-grade unhappiness they haven't fully named to themselves yet, let alone to you. It's rarely really about touch — it's usually a symptom of something underneath that hasn't found words. Treating it as a standalone problem to fix (more hugs, more effort) skips the actual question of what's using up the emotional bandwidth that used to go toward you.
Don't take this as a verdict on you yet — it's more often a symptom than a sentence. Ask her directly, without leading with 'you never,' what's been sitting heavy on her lately. The affection question and the real question are usually not the same question.
If you ask and get vague answers more than once, that's information too. A partner who's just stressed will usually let you in eventually. One who keeps deflecting might be protecting something she's not ready to say — and that's worth naming directly, not guessing at forever.
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